Hi Reader, With October comes Halloween - and a flurry of thoughts swirling around in the minds' of parents of kids with food allergies. "How should we approach Trick-or-Treating?"
"Should I even let my child Trick-or-Treat?"
"If we do, how do we balance safety and fun?"
The truth is, the answers to these questions come from a shared decision-making process between parents, their child, and sometimes even the allergist. (I highly encourage you to call your healthcare team to ask safety questions if you need help in making this decision). To help with this decision-making process, consider the following factors:
No matter what you decide, be sure to allow space for your child's input and questions. Especially if the outcome is not what your child had hoped for, they'll have thoughts to share - and that's okay. Give them space to share big thoughts and feelings, such as how disappointed they are and how their food allergy makes them feel sad, frustrated, or mad on Halloween. As parents, you can't always take away their hurt feelings, but you can be there to offer support as they work through them. If you are planning to Trick-or-Treat with your kiddo, here are a couple of children's Halloween-focused food allergy books that might help you set expectations and prepare/practice safety routines prior to Halloween: And for allergic teens and adults who still enjoy Halloween fun, but find it stressful navigating Halloween parties safely, Food Allergy Canada offers a variety of social safety tips. It's also helpful to remember the following:
As I wrap up this week's FAC Corner email, I'll leave you with this thought: “If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.” - Stephen Hayes If you've always let your worries push you to automatically avoid situations that could be made safe enough just to feel better, consider taking a different path this Halloween. Consider how you can make Halloween fun AND safe. Remind yourself that anxious thoughts can help you plan, prepare and take safe actions, and that their presence doesn't always mean something bad will happen. Founder & CEO, The Food Allergy Counselor If you know others who would benefit from receiving The FAC's emails, please don't keep them a secret! Forward this email, this link to subscribe, or this link to past emails. And don't forget about ALL of The FAC resources on our website here to support you! Connect with The FAC on socials! |
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